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First Date Guide

The red and green flags the community marks most in dating and new encounters. Traits tagged to the romantic context, from most to least voted.

Character · World

Can show empathy

462,118
+2,072
Net score
2,164
Total votes
Character · World

Has a well developed sense of humor

752,009
+1,934
Net score
2,084
Total votes
Character · World

Is a good listener

391,989
+1,950
Net score
2,028
Total votes
Character · World

Loves animals

961,701
+1,605
Net score
1,797
Total votes
Behavioral · World

Works out

921,386
+1,294
Net score
1,478
Total votes
Relationship · World

Abandons close ones in hard times

1,11140
-1,071
Net score
1,151
Total votes
Character · World

Shows respect to elders

231,111
+1,088
Net score
1,134
Total votes
Character · World

Does the opposite of what they say

1,05469
-985
Net score
1,123
Total votes
Character · World

Poor anger management

1,07746
-1,031
Net score
1,123
Total votes
Character · World

Casually tells about lying

1,07049
-1,021
Net score
1,119
Total votes
Relationship · World

Still talks about their ex

1,04970
-979
Net score
1,119
Total votes
Physical · World

Has a nice smile

301,076
+1,046
Net score
1,106
Total votes
Relationship · World

Brags about family wealth

997103
-894
Net score
1,100
Total votes
Character · World

Listens before commenting

231,076
+1,053
Net score
1,099
Total votes
Character · World

Stands by their word

231,074
+1,051
Net score
1,097
Total votes
Character · World

Treats waiters politely

291,062
+1,033
Net score
1,091
Total votes
Character · World

Has no qualms about lying

1,03351
-982
Net score
1,084
Total votes
Character · World

Expects results without effort

99780
-917
Net score
1,077
Total votes
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