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Relationship

Traits that emerge in romantic, family and social bonds. Approach to past relationships, family ties, friendship style.

Abandons close ones in hard times
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-1,071
Still talks about their ex
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-979
Starts a new relationship before ending the old
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-958
Compares you to their ex
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-938
Leaves children unattended for long
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-928
Deletes messages when their partner is nearby
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-914
Checks private messages without permission
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-895
Brags about family wealth
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-894
Takes belongings from loved ones without permission
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-869
Supports partner career goals
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+857
Cares for an aging parent personally
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+852
Puts their family's opinion above yours
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-845
Includes newcomers in the friend group
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+843
Keeps you from friends
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-840
Finishes the last item without warning
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-836
Revives old grievances during arguments
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-833
Shares pet care regularly
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+832
Blames every past relationship on the other person
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-824
Takes it personally when you make plans alone
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-814
Forces mutual friends to pick sides after breakups
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-811
Makes promises for loved ones without permission
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-795
Sets clear boundaries with their ex
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+795
Calls friends only when needing something
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-792
Blames the other person for a joint decision
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-782
Checks their partner's social media likes
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-778
Recruits allies during family arguments
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-775
Has a great relationship with family
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+775
Avoids introducing you to their family
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-774
Announces guests at the last minute
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-770
Regularly backs up family photos
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+764
Sends message after message when replies are slow
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-762
Keeps asking where you are
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-760
Discusses financial goals with their partner
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+752
Gets upset when told no
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-750
Visits loved ones without notice
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-746
Overly dependent on their mother
Turkey
-746
Uses nicknames loved ones dislike
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-736
Reports when household supplies run out
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+729
Shares family secrets
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-710
Says openly when they need alone time
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+707
Dedicates time to partner hobbies
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+707
Threatens to break up whenever a fight escalates
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-701
Gives space in the relationship
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+695
Tells no one the secrets of an ex
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+693
Talks honestly about past relationships
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+688
Avoids talking about a future together
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-684
Questions you when jealous
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-680
Always leaves the calling to the other person
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-668
Changes the subject in arguments
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-665
Asks you while planning
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+655
Shares repair tasks in the home
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+647
Can set family boundaries
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+620
Their phone is switched off during an emergency
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-617
Compares own child with others
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-616
Constantly pressures about marriage
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-613
Often loses the house key
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-607
Does not delay hard talks
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+605
Builds shared routines in relationships
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+601
Lets their child make the small decisions
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+598
Receives family support
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+559
Constantly asks about their partner's past relationships
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-554
Starts meddling in the decisions of whoever they help
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-551
Tells a mutual friend they are hurt, not you
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-547
Picks up right where they left off after months
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+537
Wants to introduce you to family
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+535
Idealizes their past relationships
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-530
Stays silent when their mother criticizes their partner
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-529
Brings their partner along when meeting friends
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+522
Picks group plans that fit everyone's budget
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+514
Asks someone first before promising on their behalf
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+506
Defends you to their friends even when angry
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+505
Argues with their partner in front of the child
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-493
Lets their family know once they arrive
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+476
Keeps the household budget hidden from their partner
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-470
Never suggests a new date after cancelling plans
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-460
Answers on the first ring during a crisis
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+443
Treats their sibling's child like their own
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+427
Supports their partner going on holiday alone
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+424
Sees relatives often
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+359
Talks openly about their own jealousy
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+338
Asks a day ahead before visiting
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+336
Still keeps gifts from their ex
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-332
Always suggests meeting up last minute
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-331
Constantly competes with their sibling
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-315
Calls their partner's family like their own
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+308
Still lives with mom
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-264
Suggests moving in together within months
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-252
Gets financial help from family
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-207
Still sees their ex's family
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-176
Prefers relationships with age gap
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-174
Friends with ex
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-130
Wants to text nonstop all day
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-121
Values formal engagement traditions
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+117
Wants to marry at a young age
Turkey
-94
Calls family every single day
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+83
Has not spoken to a parent in years
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-65
Does not want children
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-36
Has female friends
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+33
Has male friends
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+32
Shares passwords with their partner
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+28

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