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Character

Core traits about who a person is. Values and behavior patterns like honesty, empathy and patience.

Poor anger management

Casually tells about lying

Does the opposite of what they say

Has no qualms about lying

Wants to control everything

Breaks things when angry

Scolds people in front of everyone

Belittles other people's problems

Covers one lie with another when caught

Expects results without effort

Talks behind everyone's back

Constantly criticizes others

Does not admit mistakes

Takes work stress out on family

Later denies having said it

Storms out slamming doors during arguments

Acts like a tiring child

Constantly passive aggressive

Apologizes, then lists excuses

Takes credit for ideas from others

Takes words from others out of context

Treats their boss one way, their junior another

Always talks about themselves

Always turns conversation to self

Enjoys arguing all the time

Makes self-centered comments

Closed to discussion

Changes courtesy based on personal gain

Promises more than they can deliver

Says they already knew that about every new fact

Belittles whoever asks a question for not knowing

Acts stingy about splitting the bill

Invents excuses for running late

Speaks with certainty about unfamiliar topics

Does not follow the rules they set themselves

Takes everything personally

Quietly deletes critical comments

Holds grudges when hurt

Downplays your success

Gives up as soon as it gets hard

Does not mention flaws when selling something secondhand

Sees anyone who changes their mind as a traitor

Mood drops when someone close gets promoted

Gets uneasy outside the spotlight

Refuses help to appear strong

Blames every failure on bad luck

Their jokes suddenly turn hurtful

Constantly compares self to others

Does not apply received advice

Complains as a way of bragging

First to bring up inheritance after a death

Says they forgave but stays cold

Looks down on their partner's family as lesser

Throws favors back at you

Chalks up others' success to luck

Constantly comments on others relationships

Lets a secret slip while joking around

Cuts people off over small mistakes

Promises two separate meetings at the same hour

Gives up explaining when not understood

Changes mind a day after speaking

Mocks their friend's new hobby

Looks down on people whose taste in art differs

Loses patience quickly when teaching something

Excessively persistent

Uses the I am too old excuse

Indecisive person

Mentions running late only when asked

Reminds the new workplace of their old title

Withholds important things unless asked

Does not want to be understood

Always waiting for a miracle

Gossips about the past of people they introduced

Cannot do what a child can

Puts back something they broke without saying anything

Says they will look tomorrow, then disappears for months

Never leaves comfort zone

Says they were joking once proven wrong

Names the downside of every plan first

Can argue without tiring

Often mentions the important people they know

Constantly regrets own decisions

Says everyone knows when asked for a source

Sudden emotional outbursts

Gives up choosing when the options pile up

Favors people they know when hiring

Pretends to understand when they don't

Turns one example into a rule about everyone

Apologizes constantly, even when blameless

Helpful but showy about it

Reads meaning into everything

Has irrational fears

Shares their own secrets with everyone right away

Seeks approval even for small decisions

Takes on risky ventures without a backup plan

Constantly tries to be funny

Wears clothes once, then returns them

Forgives the same mistake over and over

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