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Character

Core traits about who a person is. Values and behavior patterns like honesty, empathy and patience.

Can show empathy

Is a good listener

Has a well developed sense of humor

Shows respect to elders

Listens before commenting

Stands by their word

Treats waiters politely

Poor anger management

Casually tells about lying

Approaches things open mindedly

Does the opposite of what they say

Has no qualms about lying

Wants to control everything

Asks questions instead of commenting

Opens up to help when asked

Breaks things when angry

Calms a crying child

Compassionate toward animals

Has a helpful attitude

Gets along well with children

A patient and understanding person

Solves problems through conversation

Scolds people in front of everyone

Belittles other people's problems

Covers one lie with another when caught

Listens to criticism without getting defensive

Expects results without effort

Reports their own mistakes

Talks behind everyone's back

Remembers names of people

Gets childlike joy from snow

Never forgets birthdays

Constantly criticizes others

Does not admit mistakes

Takes work stress out on family

Sits quietly with someone who is hurting

Shares the credit with the team

Later denies having said it

Storms out slamming doors during arguments

Acts like a tiring child

Cares about self and surroundings

Makes mature decisions

Constantly passive aggressive

Apologizes, then lists excuses

Has adopted an animal

Takes credit for ideas from others

Learns from people who know more

Delivers bad news honestly

Defends people facing unfairness

Can clearly name their emotions

Returns a found phone without going through it

Takes words from others out of context

Treats their boss one way, their junior another

Avoids making decisions while angry

Warns ahead when unable to keep a promise

Always talks about themselves

Gives criticism constructively

Always turns conversation to self

Enjoys arguing all the time

Mediates when tensions rise

Makes self-centered comments

Closed to discussion

Finds hope even when things go wrong

Changes courtesy based on personal gain

Says they already knew that about every new fact

Acts stingy about splitting the bill

Invents excuses for running late

Speaks with certainty about unfamiliar topics

Lifts the energy of any room

Takes everything personally

Competes fairly

Quietly deletes critical comments

Holds grudges when hurt

Pays for their own risky decision when able

Corrects wrong information where they first shared it

Donates part of their income every month

Sees anyone who changes their mind as a traitor

Can laugh at themselves

Gets uneasy outside the spotlight

Refuses help to appear strong

Constantly compares self to others

Does not apply received advice

Regularly waters the young tree on the street

Openly posts that an online argument changed their mind

Cuts people off over small mistakes

Says where the other person is right during disagreements

Steps away to cool off when angry

Looks down on people whose taste in art differs

Indecisive person

Laughs it off when things go wrong

Does not hide being new at a job

Waits for a late friend without reproach

Says who came first when the line gets confused

Warns they cannot keep secrets and refuses to listen

Wears clothes once, then returns them

Laughs at jokes about them without taking offense

Forgives the same mistake over and over

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